Keep Kids Safe Online
The step-by-step guide to protecting your kids from the dangers of digital devices.
As a Top Youth Motivational Speaker, I talk to teens every day and have seen the negative effects first-hand.
If you give your kids a phone
They are also at risk of:
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Comparison
32% of teen girls feel bad
about their bodies and
Instagram makes them feel worse.
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Depression
Teens who spend 4 or more hours a day on screens are more likely to
feel symptoms of depression.
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Pornography
12 years old is average age kids see pornography with 15% seeing explicit pics before for 10 years old.
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Cyber-bullying
55% of teens age 13-17 report experiencing cyberbullying.
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Anxiety
The anxiety rate among teens rose 61% from 2016-2023. 31% of girls experience symptoms of anxiety.
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Sexual predators
The FBI estimates that there are 500,000 sexual predators online every single day, many targeting kids.
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FOMO
72% of teens experience FOMO daily, with social media playing a critical role (American Psychological Association)
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Low-self esteem
Research shows that 32% of teen girls feel bad about their bodies and Instagram makes them feel worse.
If your kids have a phone
they are also at risk of:
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Comparison
32% of teen girls feel bad
about their bodies and
Instagram makes them feel worse.
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Depression & Anxiety
Anxiety rates are up 61% and Teens who spend 4 or more hours a day on screens are more likely to
feel symptoms of depression.
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Pornography
12 years old is average age kids see pornography with 15% seeing explicit pics before for 10 years old.
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Cyber-bullying
55% of teens age 13-17 report experiencing cyberbullying.
But that's why you're here, right?
To find the answers to help your kids.
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Mood swings
60% of teens wake up at night to check their phones. Lack of sleep impacts their mood and relationships.
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Sexual predators
The FBI estimates that there are 500,000 sexual predators online every single day, many targeting kids.
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FOMO
72% of teens experience FOMO daily, with social media playing a critical role (APA)
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Low-self esteem
Research shows that 32% of teen girls feel bad about their bodies and Instagram makes them feel worse.
Imagine parenting without the frustration and constant battles with kids about devices.
The self-paced course educates parents and provides the tools to help their kids.
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Take the guesswork out of digital parenting.
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Proven methods to confidently guide and protect your child.
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Protect your child’s mental health: Learn proven strategies to counteract social media’s negative effects.
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Get tools to set clear digital boundaries with your kids.
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Learn strategies to break addictive to have a healthier relationship with their phone & social media.
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Learn strategies to break addictive to have a healthier relationship with their phone & social media.
Here's What You'll Learn to help your kids:
The Foundation:
How guide your kids by
Modeling positive habits
We can't tell our kids to do something we aren't willing to do ourselves. That includes screen time. This foundational module will set up up for success and give you tools to create your own positive screen habits (or break addictions) while also helping your kids.
The POWER of Social Media
The secrets to helping kids make
screen time Meaningful
This powerful module will help you, as a parent, understand exactly why these devices are negatively impacting your kids, help you know exactly what to do about it, and most importantly, help you guide your kids to make devices use healthier.
Screen time BOUNDARIES
The keys to Managing kids digital
Protecting kids from mental and physical dangers is our job as parents! In this module you'll learn when is the right time to get kids a phone, how to create boundaries, and how to communicate with your kids about social media and tech. This module will set you up to successfully help your kids navigate the digital age.
The CRITICAL step
The step-by-step guide to
Monitoring kids safety
Now it's time to make your job easier. The hardest part of protecting kids is actively monitoring their digital behaviors. "But what do I look for?" Good question! This module gives you the mental health signs to look out for that indicate an issue and you'll learn exactly what you should be checking on their devices.
Here's What You'll Learn to
help your kids in 4-Steps:
The Foundation:
How guide your kids by Modeling positive habits
We can't tell our kids to do something we aren't willing to do ourselves. That includes screen time. This foundational module will set up up for success and give you tools to create your own positive screen habits (or break addictions) while also helping your kids.
The POWER of Social Media
The secrets to helping kids make screen time Meaningful
This powerful module will help you, as a parent, understand exactly why these devices are negatively impacting your kids, help you know exactly what to do about it, and most importantly, help you guide your kids to make devices use healthier.
Screen time BOUNDARIES
The keys to Managing kids digital
Protecting kids from mental and physical dangers is our job as parents! In this module you'll learn when is the right time to get kids a phone, how to create boundaries, and how to communicate with your kids about social media and tech. This module will set you up to successfully help your kids navigate the digital age.
The CRITICAL step
The step-by-step guide to Monitoring kids safety
Now it's time to make your job easier. The hardest part of protecting kids is actively monitoring their digital behaviors. "But what do I look for?" Good question! This module gives you the mental health signs to look out for that indicate an issue and you'll learn exactly what you should be checking on their devices.
Hi, I'm Tanner!
I'm a TEDx & Teen Mindset speaker who is on a mission to help teenagers overcome digital dangers and be happier. I've spoken to 10's of thousands of teens in hundreds of schools.
Most importantly, I'm a dad of 4, including 2 teenagers. I've seen first-hand the negative impact of phones and social media. I know what it feels like to be overwhelmed, frustrated, and worried.
The 4M Method shares everything I've learned from years of working with teens and parenting to help you in your home.
I'll be with you every step of the way to give you actionable tools and insights to help you and your child navigate the digital world.
Hi, I'm Tanner!
I'm a TEDx & Teen Mindset speaker who is on a mission to help teenagers overcome digital dangers and be happier. I've spoken to 10's of thousands of teens in hundreds of schools.
Most importantly, I'm a dad of 4, including 2 teenagers. I've seen first-hand the negative impact of phones and social media. I know what it feels like to be overwhelmed, frustrated, and worried.
The 4M Method shares everything I've learned from years of working with teens and parenting to help you in your home.
I'll be with you every step of the way to give you actionable tools and insights to help you and your child navigate the digital world.
Why the 4M's has worked for parents like you:
- Proven Results: Thousands of parents have used the 4M Method to transform their families’ digital habits.
- Real Expertise: Created by an teen mindset speaker, TEDx presenter, and podcast host with years of experience helping teens overcome harmful digital distractions to find happiness.
- Science-Backed: Built on research into the effects of social media and smartphones on teens.
- Action-Oriented Tools: You’ll leave with practical resources—not just theory.
You're so inspiring. I have lowered my screen time to 30 minutes, deleted TikTok and Snapchat, and decided to
live in the moment!
Thank you, I needed it!
"Tanner's method was great to help me develop strategies to support my kids as they enter the world of social media."
"I have been struggling since middle school started. You really made me open my mind to realizing that social media is the problem. Thank you so much, you saved my life!"
You're so inspiring. I have lowered my screen time to 30 minutes, deleted TikTok and Snapchat, and decided to
live in the moment!
Thank you, I needed it!
"Tanner's method was great to help me develop strategies to support my kids as they enter the world of social media."
"I have been struggling since middle school started. You really made me open my mind to realizing that social media is the problem. Thank you so much, you saved my life!"
INTRODUCING
4M Method - Parenting in the Digital Age
Join thousands of parents who have learned and implemented this proven approach to parenting teens with tech from a nationally recognized teen mindset speaker, Tanner Clark. The 4M Method gives you the solution and tools to navigate smartphones, social media, and screen-time battles to help your kids be happier and healthy.
"Great ideas with tools and practices we can use!"
- Dave N., Dad of middle schooler
4 Core Modules
The step-by-step, self-paced framework to teach you how to help your kids. The bite-sized videos will give you actionable insights to start helping your kids now!
PACT PDFs
PACT PDFs
PACT PDFs
Teen Smartphone Agreement
Boundaries start here. Download and customize the Teen Smartphone Agreement to fit the needs of your family. The #1 way to get on the same page with your kids is to avoid arguments.
Monitor Check List
Most parents don't know where to look for on their kids phones to keep them safe. This comprehensive checklist of what to look for on kid's devices will make you an expert in digital safety.
Break the Addiction
Are you or your teen stuck in the doom scroll? You'll learn proven tips and tricks to break phone habits. The course will guide you through the best tactics to start modeling the right digital habits and help your kids.
Downloadable Guides & Workbook
You'll get downloadable guides with important "Parenting in Action" - or PACT - sections to help you implement the effective and impactful lessons found in this course.
4 Core Modules
The step-by-step, self-paced framework to teach you how to help your kids. The bite-sized videos will give you actionable insights to start helping your kids now!
Teen Smartphone Agreement
Boundaries start here. Download and customize the Teen Smartphone Agreement to fit the needs of your family.The #1 way to get on the same page with your kids is to avoid arguments.
Monitor Check List
Most parents don't know where to look for on their kids phones to keep them safe. This comprehensive checklist of what to look for on kid's devices will make you an expert in digital safety.
Break the Addiction
Are you or your teen stuck in the doom scroll? You'll learn proven tips and tricks to break phone habits. The course will guide you through the best tactics to start modeling the right digital habits and help your kids.
Downloadable Guides & Workbook
You'll get downloadable guides with important "Parenting in Action" - or PACT - sections to help you implement the effective and impactful lessons found in this course.
+ BONUS
Live Virtual Teen Assembly
Your kids are invited to a LIVE virtual assembly! Tanner will share the same dynamic and engaging message he's given to tens of thousands of teenagers in schools to help your kids recognizee their worth and take control of their life.
Your teen support package:
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4 Module Core Course ($997 value)
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Teen Smartphone Agreement ($97 value)
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Phone Check Guide ($97 value)
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Downloadable Workbook PDFS ($197 value)
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LIVE Virtual Teen Assembly ($500 value)
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Safe kids and peace of mind ($ priceless)
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Lifetime access to the full course & workbooks
Total value: $1,888
Join The 4M Method now!
There is NO TIME TO WASTE!
"So powerful and helpful!!! Thank you!"
- Odette N., Mom
Stronger Families
The 4M Method principles, when put into practice, can repair and strengthen parent/teen relationships.
Peace of Mind
The digital world is daunting. The 4M Method is a simple, intuitive way to gain control of your home.
Happier Kids
When your kids change their relationship with their phone, all relationships that matter change for the better.
Frequently asked questions:
How long do I have access to the course?
Your access never expires. That way, when Tanner updates downloadable documents or the course content, you’ll have access to the latest information to help your kids. Any updates will be emailed to you.
Can I share the course with other parents I know?
We want to get this course in the hands of as many parents as possible so we can help as many kids as possible. We will be creating an affiliate program soon and you will be the first to hear about it. Please do not share your access to the course with others, but you can share a link for them to sign up!
What is PACT?
PACT stands for “Parenting in Action”. When you download the PDF’s that are associated with each lesson, you’ll see a PACT section. This is where you take action as a parent to put the 4M Method to work in your home.
My child already has a smartphone and social media. Will this still work?
Yes! While I always advocate waiting as long as you can to give your kids a smartphone, the 4M Method will still work for them and you. You'll want to be honest with them and work with them to establish the right boundaries.
How long will it take to go through the 4M's?
You can go at your own pace. However, I recommend that you thoughtfully go through each lesson and complete the PACT section to maximize results in your home. There are 19 short video lessons in total across 4 core modules.
Can I get my money back?
Of course! We offer a 30-day money-back guarantee for people who aren't satisfied. Simply show proof that you have completed the "Parenting in Action" homework, so we know you've taken steps to follow the 4M Method.
