HELP!
I gave my kids a smartphone...
Let me guess...they've changed, are less focused, and moodier.
They are ALWAYS on their phone.
You're frustrated and worried about them.
This course has helped thousands of parents to be less overwhelmed and take back control of their home.
The simple, 4-Step Guide
to protecting and raising kids
with social media and digital devices.
The simple,
4-Step Guide
to protecting and raising kids
with social media and
digital devices.
Is social media negatively impacting your kids?
If you’re like most parents,
you regret giving your kids a phone and are feeling lost at what to do or you are giving them a phone and don't know how to manage it.
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Social media has changed my child and I worry about their mental health
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I worry about sexual predators and keeping my kids safe.
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My teen is addicted to scrolling their phone
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I feel like I've lost control and need to set digital boundaries in our home.
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You are not imagining things - the dangers are real.
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Mental Health Risks
Anxiety, depression, and loneliness among teens are at an all time high.
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Addiction
46% of teens are online “Almost Constantly” Social media platforms are engineered to keep kids scrolling endlessly.
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Predators
The FBI estimates there are 500,000 sexual predators online every day.
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Digital Dangers
Cyberbullying, exposure to inappropriate content, and dangerous challenges.
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You're so inspiring. I have lowered my screen time to 30 minutes, deleted TikTok and Snapchat, and decided to
live in the moment!
Thank you, I needed it!
"Tanner's method was great to help me develop strategies to support my kids as they enter the world of social media."
"I have been struggling since middle school started. You really made me open my mind to realizing that social media is the problem. Thank you so much, you saved my life!"
What you've tried hasn't worked...now what?
You've tried the hard way and are seeing the negative impact that social media is having on your kids.
Now you have a clear roadmap to guide you with proven methods that will give you the confidence and peace of mind you’ve been waiting for.
Are you ready to get your kids back?
WELCOME TO THE 4M METHOD
The simple, step-by-step guide that helps you get your kids back and keep them safe.
Why Trust the 4M Method?
- Proven Results: Thousands of parents have used the 4M Method to transform their families’ digital habits.
- Science-Backed Approach: Built on research into the effects of social media and smartphones on teens.
- Real Expertise: Created by an international motivational speaker, TEDx presenter, and podcast host with years of experience helping teens overcome harmful digital distractions to find happiness.
- Action-Oriented Tools: You’ll leave with practical resources—not just theory.
What if you could feel in control of your kid's safety online?
✅ Take the Guesswork Out of Parenting in the Digital Age: Get proven methods to confidently guide and protect your child.
✅ Protect Your Child’s Mental Health: Learn Proven strategies to counteract social media’s negative effects.
✅ Set Clear Boundaries: Use tools like the Teen Smartphone Agreement to create structure and accountability.
✅ Break Addictive Patterns: Equip you and your teen to develop a healthier relationship with their devices.
Hey, I'm Tanner!
I'm TEDx and international motivational speaker who is on a mission to help teenagers overcome digital dangers and be happier.
It starts with you! I help parents and caregivers understand why social media is harming your kids and give you the tools you've been missing to get your happy, loving kids back.
I designed the 4M Method to be the most intuitive way for you to help your teens so they can gain control over the devices that are controlling their lives.
As a father of 4, I know how overwhelming teens and technology can be. I've been where you are.
I'll be with you every step of the way through the 4M Method course and give you actionable ways to help you and your child navigate the digital landscape.
You can do this!
"Great ideas with tools and practices we can use!"
- Dave N., Dad
INTRODUCING
The 4M Method
Parenting in the Digital Age Made Simple
The 4M Method is the 4 step process helps you, as a parents or caregiver, feel less overwhelmed and know how to help raise happy, healthy kids who aren't addicted to social media.
Take a deep breath! Peace of mind is here.
Here's what you'll achieve:
Stronger Families
The 4M Method principles, when put into practice, can repair and strengthen parent/teen relationships.
Peace of Mind
The digital world is daunting. The 4M Method is a simple, intuitive way to gain control of your home.
Happier Kids
When your kids change their relationship with their phone, all relationships that matter change for the better.
Here's what you get:
5 Module Core Course
The complete framework for addressing social media dangers head-on. Bite-sized videos that you can take action on today.
Teen Smartphone Agreement
Tired of taking away your kids' phone and their behavior doesn't change? This course will provide a customizable agreement that kids will understand to help set boundaries and expectations.
Screen Check Guide
A comprehensive list of what you should be checking and looking for and monitoring on your kid’s phones.
Break Phone Habits
Proven tips and tricks to help you and your kids break their phone habits. This course will guide you through the best tactics to start modeling good phone habits.
Parenting in Action PFSs & Worksheets
Downloadable PDF resources called "Parenting in Action" or PACT, to help you implement the effective and impactful teachings found in the 4M Method.
+ BONUS:
Live Virtual Teen Assembly
Your kids are invited to a LIVE virtual assembly! Tanner will share the same dynamic and engaging message he's given to tens of thousands of teenagers in schools, resulting in teens deleting social media and limiting screen time.
VALUE: $500
Your teen support package:
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5 Module Core Course ($997 value)
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Teen Smartphone Agreement ($97 value)
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Phone Check Guide ($197 value)
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PACT PDFS ($197 value)
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LIVE Virtual Teen Assembly (BONUS)
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Safe kids and peace of mind ($ priceless)
Total value: $1497
"How do I share this information with other parents!"
- Mom, Oregon
Wondering if this is for you?
This is for parents who:
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Already have kids with a smartphone or are thinking about getting their kids a device
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Want to protect their kids from the mental health risks of social media
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Are unsure how to navigate the smartphone question or what the right time is to get their kids a phone
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Are ready to take action to keep their kids safe, balanced, and thriving in the digital world
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Want to regain peace in their home and go back to "the way it was" before.
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If you’ve nodded your head along, then The 4M Method is 100% for you.
Any questions? DM me @realtannerclark on Instagram or email tanner@secondofstrength.com
"So powerful and helpful!!! Thank you, you explain things amazingly!"
- Odette N., Mom
Join The 4M Method now!
TOTAL VALUE: $1497
Standard Price:
$297
$97 for a
limited time
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Teen Smartphone Agreement
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5 Module Core Course
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Phone Check Guide
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Parenting In Action PDFS
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BONUS: Virtual assembly for kids
The dangers are real - but you don't have to face them alone.
The 4M Method will guide you through this important time in your child's life. This course will give you the tools and confidence to connect with your kids and help them navigate social media and tech safely.
Lifetime access to the course is included.
There is NO TIME TO WASTE!
Your kids are only with you for a short time.
I created this 4-step guide so you can help raise resilient kids and help them before they leave the nest.
Frequently asked questions:
How long do I have access to the course?
Your access never expires. That way, when Tanner updates downloadable documents or the course content, you’ll have access to the latest information to help your kids. Any updates will be emailed to you.
Can I share the course with other parents I know?
We want to get this course in the hands of as many parents as possible so we can help as many kids as possible. We will be creating an affiliate program soon and you will be the first to hear about it. Please do not share your access to the course with others, but you can share a link for them to sign up!
What is PACT?
PACT stands for “Parenting in Action”. When you download the PDF’s that are associated with each lesson, you’ll see a PACT section. This is where you take action as a parent to put the 4M Method to work in your home.
My child already has a smartphone and social media. Will this still work?
Yes! While I always advocate waiting as long as you can to give your kids a smartphone, the 4M Method will still work for them and you. You'll want to be honest with them and work with them to establish the right boundaries.
How long will it take to go through the 4M's?
You can go at your own pace. However, I recommend that you thoughtfully go through each lesson and complete the PACT section to maximize results in your home. There are 19 short video lessons in total across 4 core modules.
Can I get my money back?
Of course! We offer a 30-day money-back guarantee for people who aren't satisfied. Simply show proof that you have completed the "Parenting in Action" homework, so we know you've taken steps to follow the 4M Method.
